He gave one more squeeze to his large hand. "Thank you Da-ge that is very kind of you and Thank you Er-ge. I...Qin Su was a good and kind woman who had deserved much better." in all truth he hadn't really processed the reality of that, of her loss, her hatred at the end. It was wrapped around a thousand other things that made him feel so guilty.

He took another bite of food and tried to take a sip of tea to focus on the conversation at hand.

"I do think that is a good idea. To understand what you are comfortable in knowing. I expect we will all have much to talk about today."